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Parent Buddy Programme

Page Updated: 20th July 2022

Welcome to the Parent Buddy Programme. The Parent Buddy Programme facilitates UCD employees preparing to be parents, going on and/or returning from maternity, adoption, paternity leave, parental leave or with children of any age to connect with a Parent Buddy who is an employee and a parent in UCD.

The Buddy programme is an informal arrangement connecting you with employees to give advice and tips on preparing for parenthood and balancing parenting with your career.

Buddies support colleagues in the following ways:

  • Share your experience and useful tips
  • Connect employees with other supports and resources
  • Sign-post employees to information sources and services as appropriate

The role of a buddy is to be a confidential informal support for the employee. Buddies are not a replacement for professional services and supports. Buddies should refer employees to HR and University policies to ensure consistent, up-to-date and accurate information.

Parent Buddy Staff Profiles

Vikram Pakrashi

Vikram Pakrashi

Assistant Professor, School of Mechanical and Materials Engineering

Children: 1 child
Contact me about: Work/life balance, bilingual household, Lived in both Cork and Dublin for a number of years before my child was born and when he was growing up (till he was 3 years old).

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Jessica Bramham

Professor, School of Psychology

Children: 4 children
Contact me about: Managing maternity leaves, working part-time, parental leave, sustaining an academic career as a parent of small children.

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Rainer Melzer

Assistant Professor, School of Biology and Environmental Science, Science Centre West

Children: 2 children
Contact me about: Parenting, work-life balance, having a family as an expat in Ireland, just to talk?

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Rory Carey

Director of Culture and Engagement, Human Resources

Children: 3 children
Contact me about: work-life balance; juggling everything; living in Dublin; extra-curricular activities with kids

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Sharon O’Rourke

Assistant Professor, School of Biosystems and Food Engineering

Children: 2 children
Contact me about: Returning to work in UCD following a (unintentional) career break

WT

Assistant Professor, School of Nursing, Midwifery and Health Systems

Children: Twins – a boy and a girl
Contact me about: LGBT parents through surrogacy. Parenting twins during COVID. Work/life balance.

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Douglas Carson

Design Fellow, School of Architecture

Children: 3 children incl. twins
Contact me about: Twins, work/life balance, (I tutor and lecture half of my working week during term time.) I also run an architectural practice with my wife. Local knowledge about being a parent in Rathmines/Ranelagh.

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Clare Hayes-Brady

Assistant Professor, School of English, Drama and Film

Children: 2 children
Contact me about: Multicultural, ethnically diverse, bilingual co-parenting; managing the transition back to work; childcare; travelling with kids; balancing work commitments with children; co-parenting with both parents in employment

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Cathy Gibson

HR Partner, College of Business

Children: 3 children
Contact me about: Support, balancing work and family commitments; Pre & Post-maternity leave or any other family-related leave; part-time working

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Marina Milic

Post-doctoral Researcher, School of Archaeology

Children: 2 children
Contact me about: managing small children and research, transitioning from PhD student to Post-Doctoral Researcher and parenting, relocation.

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Debra Heeney

Programme Manager, College of Engineering and Architecture

Children: 2 children
Contact me about: balancing work and family commitments, being an older parent, local supports.

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Emer Beesly

Marketing and Communications Manager, College of Arts and Humanities

Children: 3 children
Contact me about: Birthing, hypnobirthing, returning to work after maternity leave, living abroad with children, relocating with children, work/life balance, child-care, school system.

TC

Project Officer, Equality, Diversity & Inclusion Unit

Children: 1 child
Contact me about: Surrogacy, balancing work and family commitments, travelling with kids, co-parenting with both parents in employment, local supports

Become a Parent Buddy

Are you a parent working at UCD? Why not become a buddy and support employees who are expectant parents or parents who have recently returned to work at UCD?

What will my role be as a Buddy?

The role of a buddy is to be a confidential informal support for the employee. Buddies are not a replacement for professional services and supports. A briefing on the role of a Buddy will be provided. Buddies should refer employees to HR and University policies to ensure consistent, up-to-date and accurate information. 

You can support colleagues in the following ways:

  • Share your experience and useful tips
  • Connect employees with other supports and resources
  • Sign-post employees to information sources and services as appropriate

This support could take the form of meeting for a coffee, an email or a call. Employees may have questions for Buddies about preparing to go on leave, transitioning back into the workplace, being a new parent and balancing workload, childcare arrangements, etc.

This support could take the form of meeting for a coffee, an email or a call and during the Covid-19 period will take the form of a Zoom call. Employees may have questions for Buddies about preparing to go on leave, transitioning back into the workplace, being a new parent and balancing workload, childcare arrangements, etc.

Buddies are available for up to a year or for as long as both employees and Buddy consent to continuing the relationship.

For further information on the role of a Buddy, see the Buddy Programme Code of Practice and Supplementary Covid19 Guidelines.

Time Commitment

You are available to be a Buddy for a year or for as long as both employees and Buddy consent to continuing the relationship.

A lunchtime briefing will be organised for buddies in advance of launching the programme.

How do I become a Buddy?

Please fill out the expression of interest form and email it to (opens in a new window)edi@ucd.ie.

We welcome and encourage diverse employees of all genders who are parents to register as a Buddy. 

Please read the Code of Practice prior to filling out the expression of interest.

Contact UCD Equality Diversity and Inclusion

University College Dublin, Belfield, Dublin 4, Ireland.
E: edi@ucd.ie